For when he's gone quiet

He used to text back in five minutes. Now it's five hours.

If you can feel him pulling away, you're not imagining it, and you're not the only one. There's a free presentation by relationship coach James Bauer about what may be going on in his head, and what you might do differently.

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What you'll find in the presentation

His Secret Obsession, by James Bauer

A digital program for women, built around one idea Bauer calls the "hero instinct": the theory that many men commit more deeply when they feel needed, trusted and appreciated. The free presentation explains the idea before you decide anything.

The "hero instinct" idea
What it is, and why it may explain the distance you're feeling.
Words and small signals to try
Phrases for texts and conversations, framed so they feel like you.
Why chasing can backfire
And what you might do instead when he goes quiet.
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Hi, I'm Kelly.

I make short videos about dating, mixed signals, and the stuff your friends are too polite to say out loud.

No guilt trips, no games. Just clear talk, a little sarcasm, and resources I think are worth a look.

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